Category: Have Great Relationships

Be Sexier

The Female “G-Spot” Really Does Exist

s, scientists finally confirmed its existence: Introduction.  The anatomic existence of the G-spot has not been documented yet. Aim.  To identify the anatomic structure of the G-spot. Methods.  A stratum-by-stratum vaginal wall dissection on a fresh cadaver. Main Outcome Measures.  Primary outcome is the identification of the G-spot and the secondary outcome is its measurements and anatomic description of the G-spot. Results.  The G-spot has a distinguishable anatomic structure that is located on the dorsal perineal membrane, 16.5 mm from the…


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Be Happier

Night Owls vs. Morning People: Here’s Who Comes Out Ahead

eir personalities are definitely different: ...morning types are attracted to concrete information rather than abstract thinking and like to rely on logic rather than intuition. They tend to be introverted, self-controlled, and eager to make a good impression on others. In contrast, evening types have a far more creative outlook on life, are more prepared to take risks, are more independent and nonconforming, and are a little impulsive. Night owls are smarter. And male night owls do better with the…


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Be A Great Communicator

What is the best way to respond to someone in order to strengthen your relationship?

a Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being: Shelly Gable, professor of psychology at the University of California at Santa Barbara, has demonstrated that how you celebrate is more predictive of strong relations than how you fight. The chart above lays out the four ways of responding to good news. Only "Active and Constructive" builds relationships. It is engaged, enthusiastic, curious and has supportive nonverbal action. It's worth a second to think about which category your responses usually…


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Be Sexier

10 Things Science Can Teach Us About Being Sexy As Hell

takes 13 milliseconds to determine if someone is hot, so what can you do to make sure you're looking good during that critical first impression? As a general rule, smiling makes you more attractive. That said, ladies, smile. Guys...well, think twice. Want to improve your smile? Smile slower. Beauty sleep? Yeah, it's real. Get some. Red clothes. Men, women, whatever. Wear red. Guys: stubble makes you look smarter and more sociable. Guys: chin up. Ladies: chin down. Guys: deep,…


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Have Great Relationships

What makes you appear smarter and more sociable?

er at the judg.me blog they posted the results of some number crunching based on snap judgment reactions to photos. The results are a fascinating collection of the stereotypes we hold about appearance and personality traits/qualities. Here are some quick highlights: The average woman is seen as smarter and more sociable than the average guy. Redheads are seen as dumber than blondes. Women with dyed hair or short hair are seen as extroverted. Bald men are perceived as intelligent. Beards…


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Have Great Relationships

The #1 Way To Easily Improve All Your Relationships:

st try. Put a small amount of conscious effort into trying to be a better friend, spouse, whatever. That's it. Sounds ridiculous but research shows: Improving any relationship is as easy as actively showing interest in the other person or sharing with them. Pretending time with a romantic partner was a first date makes it more enjoyable for you and for your partner. Why? On first dates we make an effort to impress. Racists actually make a better first impression…


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Be A Great Communicator

The Key To Being Liked And Being More Influential

e key to being liked and being more influential is similarity. You like names better when they are similar to yours. You even prefer brands that merely share your initials. Birthdays are easier to remember when they are closer to yours. You even prefer people who move the way you do. Demonstrating that you have something in common with someone else makes them more likely to help you. Salesmen deliberately fake little similarities in order to influence you and connect…


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Be Sexier

Is Starbucks the best place to meet women?

e smell of pastries and coffee made women more likely to give out their phone number. (Hat tip: Jon Sutton) Studies have shown that pleasant scents favor positive social relationships. However, the effect of pleasant ambient odor on romantic relationships has never been tested. In a field experiment, 18–25 year old women walking alone in a shopping mall were approached by an attractive 20 year old male-confederate who solicited them for their phone number. The women were solicited as they…


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