Category: Have Great Relationships

Be Sexier

10 Things You Need To Know About Attraction

ing hot changes what a woman finds attractive in men. High self-esteem changes what men look for in women. There's a particular type of male body language that women are attracted to. Attractiveness can make you happier... but it depends on where you live. Women are more likely to have one night stands with men who throw money around. Happiness is attractive in women but not in men. Pride is attractive in men but not in women. The fundamentals of…


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Be A Great Communicator

Here’s the best way to apologize

n't apologize for what you think you did wrong. Apologize for what they think you did wrong: Apologies are useful social tools that can act as catalysts in the resolution of conflict and inspire forgiveness. Yet as numerous real-world blunders attest, apologies are not always effective. Whereas many lead to forgiveness and reconciliation, others simply fall on deaf ears. Despite the fact that apologies differ in their effectiveness, most research has focused on apologies as dichotomous phenomena wherein a victim…


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Be A Great Communicator

Guys, how should you speak so women remember what you say?

en take note: If you want women to remember, speak to them in a low pitch voice." Via Eurekalert: ...according to a new study by David Smith and colleagues from the University of Aberdeen in the UK. Their work shows for the first time that a low masculine voice is important for both mate choice and the accuracy of women's memory. The research is published online in Springer's journal, Memory & Cognition. Join over 190,000 readers. Get a free weekly update via…


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Be Sexier

10 Things That You Need To Know About Sex

You can probably tell how sexual a woman is just by looking at her. 2) In fact, you can probably tell how orgasmic she is by how she walks. 3) And if she is more sexual, she's also more likely to be bisexual. 4) So few women pay for online porn that a female name on a credit card used to subscribe to a site gets the submission flagged as fraudlent. 5) Is this going by quickly? Time flies when you're reading…


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Be Happier

Being Compassionate Reduces Stress

more compassionate: The present study examined the role of compassion for others and social support in physiological stress reactivity. In this experiment, participants who had previously completed an online assessment of compassion experienced a social stress task in front of either two supportive or neutral evaluators, while their blood pressure, cortisol, high frequency heart rate variability (HF-HRV), and liking for the evaluators were monitored. Participants’ compassion for others interacted with social support condition to buffer their physiological reactivity to…


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Be Sexier

What trick can women use on dates to make men more interested?

cent studies have found that mimicking the verbal and nonverbal behavior of strangers enhances their liking of the individual who mimicked them. An experiment was carried out in two bars during six sessions of speed dating for which young women confederates volunteered to mimic or not some verbal expressions and nonverbal behaviors of a man for 5 minutes. Data revealed that the men evaluated the dating interaction more positively when the woman mimicked them, and that mimicry was associated with…


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Have Great Relationships

Is this why it’s so hard to be compassionate?

en when things occur by accident our brains prefer to make them sound deliberate: Three studies tested the idea that our analyses of human behavior are guided by an “intentionality bias,” an implicit bias where all actions are judged to be intentional by default. In Study 1 participants read a series of sentences describing actions that can be done either on purpose or by accident (e.g., “He set the house on fire”) and had to decide which interpretation best characterized…


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Have Great Relationships

Are good relationships better than Tylenol?

lationships may influence adjustment to chronic pain conditions such as rheumatoid arthritis (RA). We examined how both marital status and marital adjustment were related to pain, physical disability, and psychological disability in 255 adults with RA. Among married participants (n = 158), better marital adjustment (assessed using the Locke-Wallace Marital Adjustment Scale) was correlated with less pain and physical and psychological disability (all P values < .05). Married participants were divided into distressed (n = 44) and nondistressed (n = 114) subgroups…


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