Category: Be Happier

Live The Good Life

Laws of subtraction: Should you do less to get more out of life?

fe is so busy these days. In an effort to slow it down it seems we only end up adding more. Is less what we really need? If so, how do you even start down that road? Matthew May explores this in his book The Laws of Subtraction: 6 Simple Rules for Winning in the Age of Excess Everything pulling from the work of many experienced contributors.   What are the Six Laws of Subtraction? Here are May's six rules, and I've highlighted research…


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Live The Good Life

Good old days: What can the modern world learn from older societies?

e good old days. Despite all the undeniable benefits recent centuries have brought, you may have a nagging feeling that we've lost something in the process. Jared Diamond (author of the Pulitzer Prize-winning must-read Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies) has a new book to reassure you you're not crazy. The World Until Yesterday answers the question "What can we learn from traditional societies?" looking at diet, family, child-rearing, religion, violence and more.   What made the good old…


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Be Happier

Harvard professor Michael Norton explains how to be happier

chael Norton Michael Norton is an associate professor of marketing at Harvard Business School. He is co-author of the new book, Happy Money: The Science of Smarter Spending, which explains how the latest social science research can help you spend your money in ways that improve your happiness. (More on the book here.) Mike and I spoke about how time affects happiness, why money is so motivating and how Netflix might just be making us less happy.   Why are we…


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Be Happier

Is being delusional a good thing?

ing delusional is bad  Which person does everyone think is going to get into heaven? "Me." Via Sidetracked: Why Our Decisions Get Derailed, and How We Can Stick to the Plan: One of my favorite examples of this human tendency comes from a survey conducted by U.S. News and World Report in 1997. The survey asked one thousand Americans the following question: “Who do you think is most likely to get into heaven?” Respondents indicated a 52 percent likelihood for then president…


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Be Happier

5 Ways To Spend Your Money That Will Make You Happier

bsp; Can Money Buy Happiness? Yes. But you might be surprised by the ways you should spend it. Harvard professor Michael Norton and co-author Elizabeth Dunn have a new book out, Happy Money: The Science of Smarter Spending, that details the research on the 5 best ways to turn your dollars into lasting smiles. What are they?   1) Buy Experiences Via Happy Money: The Science of Smarter Spending: "...57 percent of Americans reported that the experiential purchase made them happier than…


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Be Happier

Ten Research-Based Steps To A Happier Life

went through a number of great books on happiness and pulled together ten research-based tips that can help build a happier life:   1) Cut the small talk. Discuss what matters. Via Pursuing the Good Life: 100 Reflections on Positive Psychology: First, happier participants spent more time talking to others, unsurprising finding given the social basis of happiness. Second, the extent of small talk was negatively associated with happiness. And third, the extent of substantive talk was positively associated with…


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Be More Creative

Are nice people more likely to win a Nobel prize?

at's it take to win a Nobel prize? How about "being nice"? The other day I posted the research for and against "nice guys finish last." Turns out there's one more area where being good pays off. How do we know? Researchers who hog the credit on scientific papers are less likely to win a Nobel prize. Those who give younger academics a bit of the spotlight are more likely to have a trip to Stockholm in their future. Via The…


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Be Happier

Only one thing is stopping you from being happier

ny people resist being happier because it doesn't line up with the type of person they think they are. Via Pursuing the Good Life: 100 Reflections on Positive Psychology: Using other data obtained in their studies, the researchers argued that these effects occurred because people are motivated to sustain a consistent view of themselves. Those with higher self-esteem— people who like and value themselves— see happiness as a state consistent with who they are, and thus they savor their good feelings.…


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