How To Stop Being Lazy And Get More Done: 6 Secrets To Motivation

Most people see motivation like a fairy godmother: she magically appears, taps your forehead with a wand, and suddenly you’re the kind of person who does the thing.

You “get in the zone.” You “crush it.” You become a creature of pure productivity and clean countertops.

Unfortunately, she doesn’t always show up when you need her. So you find yourself still staring at The Task like it’s a live grenade. You could just sit down and do your taxes but you find your thoughts wandering to “Is federal prison really that bad?”

The crux of the problem is that motivation is a feeling. And feelings are famously unstable, like soufflés and democracies. Feelings are the least consistent employees in the history of the human brain.

So how do we generate that feeling when we need it? Well, that’s what we’re going to dive into today. We’re going to review the research on what generates that feeling of motivation and summons the gods of Adult Competence.

Let’s get to it…

 

Set Goals

Setting clear and challenging goals is one of the most robustly validated ways to increase motivation and improve performance.

You’re supposed to set “Smart” goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound).

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Whatever.

Look, if we’re honest (and honesty is usually a bad idea, but let’s try it) you’re not gonna do that. Sounds great in a presentation but few people ever really sit down and do it so let’s focus on what actually matters:

Don’t be vague.

That’s what you need to remember.

People say, “just do your best.” That’s not a plan. That’s what you say to a child before they wobble into a school play dressed as a tree. Your brain adores it because it can interpret “best” as “what I felt like doing.” And what you felt like doing, shockingly, is rarely the most useful thing. But we use vague targets like this all the time:

• “Be better at work.”
• “Get in shape.”
• “Improve performance.”

All of these are goals in the same way “travel somewhere” is a vacation plan. You haven’t set a goal; you’ve made a wish and then wandered off expecting the universe to do admin. And then we act surprised when nothing happens.

Vague goals don’t motivate. Why? Because they’re polite and infinitely hospitable to self-deception.

A specific goal is rude. It’s a number, a deadline, and it has the gall to require you to notice whether you did it. It doesn’t care that you meant well. It cares that you ran two miles, wrote the document, made the appointment, or didn’t.

A clear goal gives the world (and more importantly, gives you) a way to find out if you’re full of it. That’s why it works.

Vague goals protect your feelings. Clear, challenging goals protect your future.

(For the ultimate guide to setting goals, click here.)

So we’ve got goals. They’re motivation at the micro level. How do we handle the macro?

 

Find Meaning

Many jobs feel like they could be called “Adults Pretending This Isn’t Pointless.” In these jobs, you’re not driven; you’re dragged.

But work doesn’t have to be like that. Many activities have genuine meaning behind them: helping a friend move, making someone laugh when they’re having a terrible day, caring for a family member. These are not necessarily pleasurable acts. Sometimes they’re exhausting, inconvenient, even gross. But they rarely feel pointless.

They contain within them a story: there was a need; I responded; something changed. That story is what the mind craves.

You can tolerate pain if you can explain it. You can’t tolerate pain if it’s just noise. That’s why your brain is weirdly capable of heroic stamina in some contexts and toddler-level resistance in others. You’ll drive across town at midnight to help a friend, you’ll stay up all night for a sick child, you’ll spend hours fixing a crisis you didn’t create: because the “why” is obvious.

That’s intrinsic motivation. The thing that makes you do the work because the work itself is rewarding. Not because you’re getting a prize. Not because you’re afraid you’ll get fired and have to move back in with your parents and explain to them what “brand strategy” is. When the work matters, you don’t need to bribe yourself. You just… do it. You might complain. You might be tired. But you do it because it’s connected to something real. It turns “this sucks” into “this sucks, but it’s worth it.”

So here’s the challenge: find the meaning in what you do. Who are you helping? Visualize them. What need are you fulfilling? Who would be worse off without your work? Make a genuine effort to visualize these people, these results. It can make all the difference in the world.

(For more on how to find meaning in life, click here.)

So we have goals and meaning. They’re powerful, but what produces the momentum that gets you past the finish line? Heck, what does the research show is the most powerful motivator of all?

 

Track Progress

The modern workplace is a factory for “phantom progress.” Phantom progress is the psychological equivalent of chewing gum when you’re hungry: motion, flavor, no nutrition.

You work hard all day but feel like you did nothing because you never moved forward on anything that mattered. Your effort was consumed by maintenance. Maintenance is necessary, but you can’t live on maintenance alone. It’s like brushing your teeth for eight hours and calling it a life.

Humans really enjoy not feeling like their day has been poured directly into the sink. We like feeling that we made a difference toward something important.

Teresa Amabile’s research labels it “The Progress Principle,” which sounds like a Victorian moral pamphlet (“The Progress Principle: An Exhortation on the Virtues of Making Headway In Which is Shewn the Good Effects of Daily Endeavour”) but the point is brutally simple: of everything that happens in a workday, the thing most likely to motivate you isn’t a free doughnut, or a “shout-out” on Teams. It’s moving forward on meaningful work. Even small itsy bitsy teeny weeny wins can spike your mood and motivation.

Break tasks into small parts to create more opportunities for wins. Track them. Celebrate them. Feel that you’re making progress. Because once you do, your brain starts to believe in cause and effect again and more motivation follows.

(For more on how to get motivated, click here.)

To get motivated don’t we need to “think positive”? Sure. But we need to do it the right way…

 

“WOOP”

Neuroscience research shows positive thinking, on its own, is a terrible idea. It actually reduces motivation.

You sit around imagining the triumphant montage of your future. Feels great. But your brain now feels like the movie has already happened. So it doesn’t allocate the energy to do the boring, sweaty parts that make the montage real.

You paid yourself in advance for work you haven’t done. This is a psychological Enron.

The effective approach is “mental contrasting”: imagine your goal, examine the obstacles in the way, and then form a plan. The steps are summed up with the fun little acronym WOOP:

• Wish: For what you want. We’re all good at this.
• Outcome: Imagine what it’ll feel like when you get your wish. Again, easy.
• Obstacle: What’s realistically going to get in the way? A little cynicism helps here.
• Plan: What you’ll do when the obstacle shows up.

Most positive thinking is essentially: “Look at my dreams! Aren’t they lovely? Now give me stuff.” WOOP is more like: “Here’s my goal. Here’s the part of me that’s going to sabotage it. Here’s how I’m going to deal with that sabotage when it arrives.”

And it works. Because obstacles aren’t hypothetical. They’re inevitable.

(For more on how to WOOP your way to motivation, click here.)

All of these tips have been pretty nice so far.

But sometimes you know you need tough love…

 

Make Yourself Accountable

Ask yourself why you’ll show up to a meeting on time but you can’t find the motivation to do the thing you claim matters most.

Ask yourself why the only time you really clean your home is when someone is coming over.

You can disappoint yourself indefinitely. Social expectation, on the other hand, is stubborn. Social expectation follows you around. Social expectation taps its foot.

You want motivation? Tell people about your plans and challenge them to hold you accountable. Now there’s potentially a moment where you have to say, out loud, “No, I didn’t.”

That sentence weighs forty pounds. Once you tell another person you’re not battling the task, you’re battling the possibility of being The Person Who Always Says Stuff And Never Does It.

You know exactly who that person is. That’s why you don’t want to be them.

And that’s the miracle of accountability: it turns your goal from a suggestion into an appointment.

Now some people claim they “don’t care what anyone thinks.” Those people are either: lying, or living alone in a cave and communicating exclusively by throwing rocks at hikers, or emotionally dead inside, which (honestly) must be quite restful. But most of us do care. We really want to be seen as responsible and competent.

Yeah, I’d prefer to be motivated by pure internal virtue, like a monk, or at least like someone who flosses regularly. But it turns out the most effective way to keep a promise to yourself is to let someone else hold you to it. Not like a cop, not like a judge, but like a friend who’s willing to remember what you said when you were still hopeful.

(To learn how to make New Year’s Resolutions that stick, click here.)

What’s a motivation tip that’s simple and less think-y? Can’t you just move a couple of things around by yourself and see big results?

Actually, yes…

 

Manipulate Your Environment

Your surroundings are not neutral. Your environment is always influencing what you do next. And, sadly, the easiest option usually becomes the default. And the default becomes your life.

Look around at your environment, including the proximity of your phone, and you may realize you have basically created a series of booby traps for your future self.

Small changes like turning off notifications, putting your phone in another room, or putting tomorrow’s tasks front and center aren’t just cute hacks. They’re structural engineering. You’re altering the default. And behavioral economics has repeatedly shown us that defaults are powerful. The default is the setting your brain uses when it’s tired, stressed, or busy… which is, you’ll note, most of the time.

People hear “behavioral economics” and picture a tweed-jacketed professor with a graph. In reality, it’s what supermarkets do when they put candy at child-eye level. It’s what apps do when they send you notifications that sound like a needy ex: “We miss you.” And you are a creature that responds to cues and convenience, not a steel-plated robot monk.

Situate your environment around your goals. Make starting embarrassingly easy. With time, what used to take willpower becomes a habit. A habit is basically a behavior that no longer requires you to hold a parliamentary debate inside your skull. The point is not to become a saint of discipline. The point is to stop needing discipline. Manipulating your environment and creating routines is how you turn a task from “I must summon the courage to begin” into “This is just what happens now.”

Want to read more books? Make it easier to pick up a book than your phone. And if you think this is infantilizing, yes, it is. Stop pretending you’re above it. In fact, exile the phone. Another room. Not face down. Not “I’ll resist.” Exile.

If that feels dramatic, good: it means you recognize how powerful your environment is.

(To learn more on how to manipulate your environment to change behavior, click here.)

Okay, we’ve covered a lot. Let’s round it up…

 

Sum Up

Here’s how to stop being lazy and get more done…

• Set Goals: “Do your best” is what you say when you want to feel like a good person. A specific, difficult goal is what you choose when you actually want to become one.
• Find Meaning: Visualize the human on the receiving end of your effort. Suddenly it’s not “my task list,” it’s “someone’s life is less awful because I did this.” And your brain goes: “Ah. Yes. I remember now. I am not merely a meat-based email cannon. I am useful.”
• Track Progress: If you want long-term motivation, you don’t need a new personality. You need to end the day able to say: “That moved forward.”
• WOOP: Positive thinking is appealing because it’s the equivalent of buying a treadmill and counting the order confirmation email as cardio. If you want real results you need to consider the obstacles and plan for them.
• Be Accountable: Humans respond to “you’ll be embarrassed” better than they respond to “this will be good for you in the long run.” Suddenly I’m jogging at 7 a.m. not because jogging is enjoyable, but because Aunt Carol might comment “how’s training going??” and I refuse to be humbled in public by Aunt Carol.
• Manipulate Your Environment: If corporations can spend billions engineering your behavior so you buy junk and stare at glowing rectangles until your soul dissolves then you can spend ten minutes rearranging your life so you do the things you actually care about.

We romanticize motivation because it suggests that doing things should feel good. It suggests that if you were firing on all cylinders, you would glide through tasks on a conveyor belt of inspiration.

This is, of course, nonsense.

Even the things we love are often difficult, repetitive, and boring. Love doesn’t eliminate drudgery; it merely provides a reason to tolerate it.

Motivation is often love, disguised as logistics. Love for your future self. Love for the people who live with you. Love for the small daily order that keeps chaos from swallowing everything. Love for the work, even when the work feels tedious.

If you’re waiting for the day you permanently become “a motivated person,” congratulations: you’ve invented a fictional character. That person is not coming. Real motivation is not a personality upgrade. It’s more like a busted flashlight you keep fixing. Some nights it works great. Some nights you smack it against your palm like, “Come on, you piece of junk.” We all need little tricks and rituals to get our mojo flowing sometimes.

And now? Now you’re supposed to do something about it. Yes, you. The creature currently reading this on a device sticky with fingerprints and destiny.

You have the tips. But in the end, it’s not about the knowledge. If knowledge were the bottleneck, Wikipedia would own a yacht.

The thing we always need to be reminded of is that if you just get started, it gets easier. In fact, it gets addictive. In the best, least felony-inducing sense of the word.

So go. Get started. That’s all that matters.